{"id":1400,"date":"2016-10-05T04:07:03","date_gmt":"2016-10-05T04:07:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mynerdyfriend.com\/girltalk\/?p=47"},"modified":"2020-08-04T21:55:37","modified_gmt":"2020-08-05T04:55:37","slug":"non-threatening-leadership-strategies-6","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mynerdyfriend.com\/?p=1400","title":{"rendered":"Non-threatening leadership strategies \u2013 #6 When You Already Knew That"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have never used this strategy on a peer or a subordinate, ever. I am more than happy to remind them that they learned this thing from me, although admittedly I usually make it into a joke. However, i use it frequently for superiors. Example 1; when I started at Mark Anthony we somehow got into a discussion about fonts and I ended up explaining to the people present what serifs were (those little bits at the tops and bottoms of letters that make text look like it was type-written), and how sans-serif fonts were simply fonts without those bits. Well, one of the people present was my boss, and he is now a font-nazi who freaks out at anyone who &#8220;mixes&#8221; fonts on websites because serif and sans-serif don&#8217;t belong together (wrong, but that&#8217;s another story). What he doesn&#8217;t say &#8211; in fact, what he has totally forgotten &#8211; is that he had no idea what a serif was before that day. I know he&#8217;s forgotten because sometimes he explains this back to me. And I just nod and say &#8220;ok&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, it serves nobody for me to say &#8220;hey, dumbass, I taught you that&#8221;. But I wonder less why we let these things go than why we feel we have to.<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"600\" data-attachment-id=\"1418\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.mynerdyfriend.com\/?attachment_id=1418\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.mynerdyfriend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/example6c.gif?fit=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"600,600\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"example6c\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.mynerdyfriend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/example6c.gif?fit=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.mynerdyfriend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/example6c.gif?fit=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.mynerdyfriend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/example6c.gif?resize=600%2C600&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1418\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>From: <a href=\"https:\/\/thecooperreview.com\/non-threatening-leadership-strategies-for-women\/\">https:\/\/thecooperreview.com\/non-threatening-leadership-strategies-for-women\/<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have never used this strategy on a peer or a subordinate, ever. 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