{"id":43,"date":"2016-10-04T05:00:42","date_gmt":"2016-10-04T05:00:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mynerdyfriend.com\/girltalk\/?p=43"},"modified":"2020-08-04T21:52:45","modified_gmt":"2020-08-05T04:52:45","slug":"non-threatening-leadership-strategies-4","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mynerdyfriend.com\/?p=43","title":{"rendered":"Non-threatening leadership strategies &#8211; #4 Someone Steals Your Idea"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Arrrrrgh!!!!!!<\/p>\n<p>ALL.<\/p>\n<p>THE.<\/p>\n<p>TIME!!!<\/p>\n<p>Once, a man took credit for my idea LITERALLY 30 seconds after I said it. Other men in the room even noticed, it was so obvious. But the man who did it still didn&#8217;t recognize what he did, even when it was brought to his attention. And I think that&#8217;s the worst of it. Men do this all the time and don&#8217;t even realize they are doing it. Our contributions of women really that overlooked or minimized? Do men think these ideas are coming from the voices in their head? I have no doubt that this is a gender-biased behaviour, acted by men upon women.<\/p>\n<p>The corollary to this is that women must practically swoon over the ideas contributed by men in order to increase the chances that their ideas are heard. &#8220;Bob, that is SUCH a great idea! And what do you think if we added to that by doing xyz? Then your idea would be amazing!&#8221; I have done this as well \ud83d\ude41<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"600\" data-attachment-id=\"1414\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.mynerdyfriend.com\/?attachment_id=1414\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.mynerdyfriend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/example4d.gif?fit=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"600,600\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"example4d\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.mynerdyfriend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/example4d.gif?fit=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.mynerdyfriend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/example4d.gif?fit=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.mynerdyfriend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/example4d.gif?resize=600%2C600&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1414\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>From: <a href=\"https:\/\/thecooperreview.com\/non-threatening-leadership-strategies-for-women\/\">https:\/\/thecooperreview.com\/non-threatening-leadership-strategies-for-women\/<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Arrrrrgh!!!!!! ALL. THE. TIME!!! Once, a man took credit for my idea LITERALLY 30 seconds after I said it. Other men in the room even noticed, it was so obvious. 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